Guest Post: Eddie Corvera

Today's guest writer is Eddie Corvera, who also goes by EMC II. Eddie is a writer and poet, and we have a lot in common. Same town and we both are naturally very self-deprecating (we had a nice chat about this before he submitted his letter). 

Here is a quick summary of our exchange. 

Eddie: I’ve never been a fan of self love lol I’m more of a self loathing type, would letters on the more pessimistic snarky side be appropriate?

Me: I'm actually a master of self deprecation, so I get it. I suppose you could do something like "it's ok that you don't like 70% of people. Focus on the upper 30% and have a party.” Or "you're not bad. Not great, but not bad." And then in caption I can provide context. I'm actually not naturally optimistic. I just try to do the self love thing because it's important and it's a challenge. 

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Now, I mention this anecdote because the idea of Self Love can get kind of hairy. Look. YOU ARE NOT BROKEN IF SELF LOVE IS HARD TO FIND. It's supposed to be a challenge; people are inherently flawed. Yet it's important to try to find the lovable even in the most unseemly places. It's a scavenger hunt sometimes, but if you seek, you will find. And really, it's ok if your self love letters don't look like mine. We are all different. But we all need the same thing: the ability to accept who we are. 

And with that introduction, here is EMC II’s letter of encouragement. 

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Dear Self,

You’re a coward. 

Life is too short to not: 

Say what you feel, mean what you say, and above all else be braver than the person you were yesterday.

Sincerely, Me

EMC II

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More information about EMC II:

1.) Favorite Quote:

It’s not about the money, it’s about sending a message. — The Dark Knight, 2008

2.) Favorite Book:

Picking a favorite book is like trying to pick a favorite amongst your children; everyone has an actual favorite they just prefer not to say it out loud and upset anyone. My favorite book tends to be whatever I’m reading at the moment, in this case it’s Foundation by Issac Asimov (I’m somewhat behind on literature in sci-fi so I’m trying to catch up).

3.) What I wanted to be when I was a kid:

Animator for Disney Pixar, Doctor/Surgeon 

4.) Spirit Animal:

I wouldn’t be fulfilling the writerly cliche if I didn’t say cats. There’s just something about being aggressively passive-aggressive and irreverent towards everything and everyone around them that I deeply connect with. That and I’ve noticed they have a tendency to eat when they’re anxious or stressed which I also relate to.

5.) Social Media and Links to More Work:

Instagram: @eddiecorvera

Twitter: @TheOnlyEMC2


Thank you Eddie for sharing your words with us!

For more Letters of Self Love, Hope, and Compassion, please visit Dear.Self.Love on Instagram!

About this Project

Thank you for your interest in Dear Self, Love…, which is a letter writing project with the goal of promoting self love, compassion, and tolerance through letters.

I'm building guidelines as we go, but basically I'm looking for writers who wish to write words that encourage and inspire thoughts and ideas of love and compassion.

As a way to thank my contributors, I like to try to feature more information about them on this blog.

For the feature, I ask contributors to provide the following:

Brief Bio:
Favorite Quote:
Favorite Book:
What did you want to be when you were a kid:
Spirit Animal:
Social Media:

All items are optional!

I believe that some great things cannot be done alone, so I am so grateful to find like minds to help with this project.

If you have any questions for me, my email is open as well: shewritesforgood@gmail.com. 

Guest Post: Kobi Pen

Today's guest writer is Kobi Pen. From Kobi: “I am an up and coming writer, story teller and poet. I write what I feel but also what others around me feel. If you are curious about any of my writing or would like anything written, check out my page www.instagram.com/K0_81.”

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Dear Self,

It is okay to cry, it is okay to feel sad, it is okay to not be okay. Admitting it makes you strong.

Love, Me

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More information about Kobi:

Favorite Book: “Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck”

What I wanted to be when I was a kid: “I wanted/want to go into the medical field so I can help people but recently I've realized I can help people with my writing too. So now,  a writer and in the medical field.”

Spirit Animal: “I've been told that my spirit animal is close to that of an owl, a gorilla, and a turtle before so I'm not really sure about that one, lol.”

Social Media:

Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/K0_81

Thank you Kobi for sharing your words with us!

For more Letters of Self Love, Hope, and Compassion, please visit Dear.Self.Love on Instagram!

Guest Post: B.W. Ginsburg

Today's guest writer is the talented and humble B.W. Ginsburg.

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Dear Self,

You're stronger than you think. I know that this is a long and arduous journey, but you are making progress! You have done so many things you weren't sure you could and you have overcome so many obstacles that you thought too high to overcome.

When you're feeling low and questioning your ability to get through this, reflect on how far you've already come. Maybe progress hasn't come as quickly as you'd like, but you are getting better.

You're trying your best and that's what matters. You're writing, you're a published author, and you try your hardest to do whatever you can to get better. Don't give up, you're doing great!

Love,
Me
-@b.w.ginsburg48

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I met B online through our mutual love of the written word. Here is more information about her:

1.) Favorite Quote:

“If there’s a book you really want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.” — Toni Morrison

2.) Favorite Book:

Deadlines by Greg Bear

3.) What I wanted to be when I was a kid:

Author, Fashion Designer

4.) Spirit Animal:

I've always felt a special bond with animals and while I've never had one, I've always felt a great love for dogs. They're loyal, lovable, curious, and most are kind. I've always been loyal myself and quite curious. In addition, I try to be there for others and be a listening ear.

In addition, I've owned two rabbits and feel that I share personality traits with them as well. While I am kind and gentle, I am also strong and hardworking.

5.) Social Media and Links to More Work:

Anxiety Blog: Getting Through Anxiety 
Author Blog: Rest in Piece Blog
Instagram: @b.w.ginsburg48
Seeds 4 Life: Articles by B.W. Ginsburg

You can also purchase her published works, Rest In Piece and Abstract Clarity here at her Amazon Author Site.

Thank you B, for being my first guest writer!

For more Letters of Self Love, Hope, and Compassion, please visit Dear.Self.Love on Instagram!

Dear Self

Today is a new day.

So cherish yesterday's good and learn from its bad.

Enjoy today. It only happens once.
             
Love, Me